Musing 12-19-06

CHRISTMAS 2006: Dare a man of years express his concerns about Christmas? As a boy it seemed Christmas would never come. Now, sadly I almost wish it would not come because it has become burdensome. Don’t misunderstand me I still cherish the true meaning of Christmas as it reminds us of our God and Savior Jesus Christ Who took on human form that He might give His life for the redemption of our souls. I still relish the anticipation of family gathering together to celebrate the occasion, but…

· The decorating is colorful and beautiful and I enjoy the observation. But what does all this have to do with the real meaning of the season. Oh, I know the thought expressed relating to the lights and remembering that Christ is the “Light” of the world but how many really understand that? What about those large lighted balloons of snowmen, some with assorted scenes within, some are Santa Clauses who supposedly comes from the North Pole?
· The running to purchase gifts is stressful. Not that I don’t enjoy giving, I do! But, too often we buy because it is the thing to do. We have little idea of what is really needed because the family is so scattered and we seldom get to see their real circumstances or need. The children may have grown a foot taller than the last time we saw them and we really don’t have any idea of their sizes. You can ask but the answers are difficult to obtain, everyone is so busy.
· So, like many we have taken up the process of obtaining “gift cards” that we hope and pray are not lost or discounted due to time lost in their belated use. It seems so impersonal and without the usual thought of picking a choosing just the right gift.

Have I become cynical? No, I don’t think so, just frustrated in not being able to do what we once did due to circumstances beyond our control. The care of Betty, trying to keep up with all the shopping, laundry, cooking (mostly out of cans for myself as Betty has lost her appetite), doctoring, etc. changes the perspective. It gives a different meaning to what is important, necessary or fulfilling. What is the answer? Prayer, trusting in our God and Savior, looking for the peace that is provided by the Prince of Peace that cannot be found by the world’s standards of Christmas.

My son John, who is not able to work because of heart problems and his wife Ethel, share some of the same frustrations and have come to a decision they discussed with their son and family nearby as well as Tim who lives in the Wheaton/Chicago area. They are only buying gifts for the small grandchildren or children. Their emphasis is going to be on the family gathering and enjoying one another’s company. Attend the Christmas Eve service, reading the Christmas story, sing songs of praise and joy, drink eggnog, and share a meal (and snacks) while simply enjoying each other’s company.

Wouldn’t the merchants howl if all made the same radical change to let being together as a family and rejoicing in their Biblical (Christian) heritage be the center of their gathering rather than the rush of running to and fro for gifts or gift cards, etc. Wow!!

If my understanding is correct, the early church did not celebrate the virgin birth of Christ. They acknowledged and taught the doctrine and its importance but the cross of Calvary and the resurrection was the point of emphasis and proclamation. Years of religion and tradition have grown into something far more than what God had intended. We’ve nearly lost the value of family and faith in the hurry and scurry of the season.

Please don’t be too harsh with my personal “Musings,” concern and frustration.

Have A Very Merry Christmas &
Enjoy Your Family & Faith!